The Power of Positive Words: Studies have consistently shown that positive words stimulate brain areas linked to learning and reasoning, while reducing stress responses in children. On the other hand, negative phrases (like “You’re stupid”) activate the brain’s fear center and trigger stress hormones.
The Impact of Systematic Encouragement: Research from De Montfort University in the UK found that children who received encouragement from parents at least five times a day displayed better behavior and greater self-confidence.
Developing Emotional Vocabulary: Teaching children to use words like “sad,” “afraid,” and “excited” strengthens their emotional expression and empathy toward others.
Practical Tips:
Start the day with phrases like “I’m proud of you” or end it with “I love you just as you are.”
Use a variety of emotional words such as “love,” “want,” “know” to widen expression.
Observe and engage with the child’s feelings using expressions like “You seem sad—would you like to tell me about it?”
